I used to love all jodi picoult's quotes, some better than the other, and thinking i really know what it means and how it feels like. Then someday i woke up and read back the quotes, i found out i only really know what it means now.

The person i am now knows for sure that you cant say what you would have done in a situation you've never been and you cant possible understand how it really feels like. Think, a few years later i will read back those quotes and feel what i still do not feel now.

"Can you hate someone for what they have done, but still love them for whom they had been?"
— Jodi Picoult (Nineteen Minutes)